It doesn’t matter anymore

Opinions, Decisions, Words, Advices. Most of us feel we have had all of them! Yet we tend to do the same to someone who comes to us; don’t we?

I have always had a feel that we commit similar mistakes that we hate; when someone else does it on us. Yet, we still do it. There was a time when I used to refuse or oppose it, people called it an aggressive response from me, and I stopped doing it. Not just that, I even stopped suggesting people on what is right and what is wrong. There came another feedback stating I don’t care for my friends; leading to a confusion and dilemma whether to stay silent or turn back to normalcy I then had a chance to interact to a professor of human psychology who had built reputation in dealing with problems of human thoughts he had an explanation to it, he stated that, “ Human mind is the most complex thing in the world, the more you try to mend and bend it, the complexity increases, it’s just like the trying to Knit from a unbundled threads which has knots here and there”. I did ask him for a solution, he said look “Be like the wave that never tries to mend and bend its way for others and not like the light that twists and turns itself so as to ensure maximum coverage”. It took a while for me to Understand, till I saw a ray of light penetrating from the roof of an old house, I tried to help it reflect more by providing a mirror at the end of the journey on to floor, it was reflected again. It never stopped till it reached the ground. I understood then, that we humans are the same we want to state our thoughts and we expect people to hear it, when we don’t find a sound response to it, we end up sharing thoughts to others, ultimately to a point that, someone will hear us out. I also found a best way to shell myself out of it. And that’s what I call as writing our own thoughts. I just did that, and now I conveyed my thoughts to others, as a blog. I am happy my thoughts are conveyed. And I now it wouldn’t really matter, if I would now say that I wasn’t heard or I have been heard. As I have certainly put my thoughts across. What really matters now is, How would you like to convey your thoughts and feel??