Saturday, 28 January 2012

India Needs a Dictator


Looking at the way, we have progressed over the years post independence, seems like the Indian Government fundamentally runs on two major factors, 1) Reservations and Caste system & 2) Corruption.
It’s a shame to be calling India as a secular country today; we have great brains of the country sitting idle and the art of how not to lead the country being thought to us once again, not by the ones who learnt a lesson from us, but by those who are repeated corrupting the system again and again. 
How will a country be Called Secular, when the people of it are divided on the basis of, caste creed, and more than all, by the very famous Statement “Do you know who I am?”
I strongly feel there is a need to have a dictators rule in this very country, which once upon a time Thought democracy to the world, and the largest democratic country in the world, at a stage where democracy is more or less , being sold for the so called Leaders for their own good. Politics has now turned to be a dirty game, and knowingly or unknowingly; directly we being a part of it.
Is there an end to such a dirty game, which is so biased and looks so shadowed over casteism. Clearly played just to ensure a win for all the money to be earnt in 5 years, to sustain 3 generations!
 There was a discussion, with a group of youth, which I was a part of, a few did bring in an idea, if there has been a mandatory reservation made on the name of a caste, let’s all appeal to the government to convert ourselves to the same caste, this really frustrated me to core, after all the system has gone so corrupt to an extent that, even if people hate it, the government wants it, to ensure they get their handful. There was a great line that was told as well; India, is a most un-organized country, I am not sure if every one of us agree to it, potentially yes; no denial on the statement!
The scandals that did happen in Indian politics over the last 5 years, and the money involved in it, was larger than the actual spending of the Entire country over a decade, This is something which has a alarming sign, Yet we progress, not because of the politics or not because of the fact, we accept defeat, it is just because of the fact, we pay our taxes without questioning, what do you do to develop our life style by taking that amount of money?.
When a soldier dies in the battle ground, or guarding the borders of the country from external forces, just to make sure, we and our families are safe and sound, when something bad or intolerable happens to his family, there are instances where they stay out there to make sure everyone are safe, keeping his family aside, and nation at a priority, and when something bad happens to him, the government sits on a discussion, asking for a justification whether it was his fault or someone else’s to even pay him respect and give him the honor he deserves. I am proud of such soldiers and when they share their stories, I feel so proud about them and I thank them, for making our lives better and safer, regardless of their worthiness. Every one of us have a soldier within ourselves in a way or other and we act with utmost discipline to be the way we have to be, just to ensure we do our duties the best way possible, Are the So called leaders and icons of this very country, shameless to just discharge their duties promptly? Asking this question makes me remember a wonderful statement once told to me by an ex manager of mine,
“fighting with a manager is like fighting with a pig in mud, after a while we understand, we are the ones getting dirty; worst above it, The pig is actually enjoying it!”
A soldier has to salute a corrupt leader of the nation no matter how corrupt is he or she respecting the positions they hold, when it is time to chose the ones who lead our nation, don’t we even have common sense to chose a better human, a right statesman? Unfortunately the right statesmen of the country today are not willing to stand for an election, not because of the fear of losing, but because of the corrupt system, which we developed over the span of time to ensure, we get the leftovers or remains of what politicians have looted from our own pockets, for years.
I feel there is a need to re-organize the country, a system that is more transparent and crisp, where the actions speak and not just words. There is a need for a dictator, who really need not wear a uniform and sit with a gun in hand, But decent enough to understand the plight of a common man and respond to his needs, and not the wants of a over eaten Mouse!.
Think to yourself, are we really worth, this corrupt political system, or has the time come for us to clean the dust and dirt, which we have created over the span of time. We need a better life and a better country to live in, and not a country, wherein to get the information you need, you have to pay bribe,( Referring to Right to Information Act)
Give it a thought, Your comments and shares, can make a lot of us educate , and lets be educative, if not corrective!

Friday, 13 January 2012

It doesn’t matter anymore


Opinions, Decisions, Words, Advices. Most of us feel we have had all of them! Yet we tend to do the same to someone who comes to us; don’t we?
I have always had a feel that we commit similar mistakes that we hate; when someone else does it on us. Yet, we still do it. There was a time when I used to refuse or oppose it, people called it an aggressive response from me, and I stopped doing it. Not just that, I even stopped suggesting people on what is right and what is wrong. There came another feedback stating I don’t care for my friends; leading to a confusion and dilemma whether to stay silent or turn back to normalcy I then had a chance to interact to a professor of human psychology who had built reputation in dealing with problems of human thoughts he had an explanation to it, he stated that, “ Human mind is the most complex thing in the world, the more you try to mend and bend it, the complexity increases, it’s just like the trying to Knit from a unbundled threads which has knots here and there”. I did ask him for a solution, he said look “Be like the wave that never tries to mend and bend its way for others and not like the light that twists and turns itself so as to ensure maximum coverage”. It took a while for me to Understand, till I saw a ray of light penetrating from the roof of an old house, I tried to help it reflect more by providing a mirror at the end of the journey on to floor, it was reflected again. It never stopped till it reached the ground. I understood then, that we humans are the same we want to state our thoughts and we expect people to hear it, when we don’t find a sound response to it, we end up sharing thoughts to others, ultimately to a point that, someone will hear us out. I also found a best way to shell myself out of it. And that’s what I call as writing our own thoughts. I just did that, and now I conveyed my thoughts to others, as a blog. I am happy my thoughts are conveyed. And I now it wouldn’t really matter, if I would now say that I wasn’t heard or I have been heard. As I have certainly put my thoughts across. What really matters now is, How would you like to convey your thoughts and feel??

Sunday, 8 January 2012

I, Me and myself



Thoughts, concepts, ideas, facts all of these topics are centralized over ourselves, the way we live and what we are.
There are certain times when we feel we have a thought that can be converted to an idea, further conceptualizing it to be a reality. Yes I am talking about the same thing that was at the back of your mind all this while. At times, we humans tend to be dumb enough to make someone realize our own potentials and abilities to ourselves, although it’s not harmful, it sounds crazy; at times dangerous too.
Crazy for the fact, we didn’t even bother to ask ourselves what and who we are; dangerous for the fact we didn’t even notice that someone did observe us so closely!!
Here is a story; not very old, neither new but something worth sharing.
There was a man, who always had a desire in reward for what he did. His actions never depicted his true charm or abilities, his thoughts never told the world about his limitless powers of thinking. All that he showed the world was the need for money that had been depicted to be the only driving force. He lived with a lone motto “never do anything for charity “. He was a well educated, aspiring and an inspiring talent, trained to mend and bend the minds of the people to make them believe what they saw was true, and his abilities got him success.  People around him spoke nothing other than Money, he brought in a concept money can bring everything to you, until one day he had to witness a fight between his own ego and love for the same god damn thing. He was brave enough not to chose either ego or love, he chose a path of embracing his own feel and fears, he later on turned out to be one of the most appreciated and celebrated writer of the recent times. For the one, who saw the first image of the most respected individual thought him to be money minded, and the later half felt his destiny changed. Infact, it was just the paradigm shift of an individual looked upon as a destiny re-designed.  We have it all in us, just need to realize what we want and when…

In the making


We always have a feel of being something different from others, and in fact we are different from each other. But, when it comes to living we are all the same. Either we involve in a profession that’s not something new to the world, or something that has been created by us, as such there is nothing designed to destine yet, we have our heart for it.
What make us so called humans, are not the actions or reactions, it’s a sense of comfortability and respect we have for ourselves, rest others. If we sit to question ourselves, we always feel we wanted to do something different from the rest, and we still fall in the same loop, just like the rest, and we still love to do it.
I did feel we are all the same, with a bit of change in the thought process, developed over a period of time with the regional influences undertaken.
In the making, it’s something that we tell ourselves whenever we see someone above or below our so called social status, and this feel makes us think the way we are supposed to think, I have a theory of mine when it comes to thinking. “No man can think above his thought capabilities, because he will not be ready to think that big, neither lower to his level; for the fact the ego will not let you do so.”
Designing destiny; term looks so fictitious, yet we have once thought of it atleast by now.
We live in the world, where we created all the dirt not just on the land, instead in the heart and minds as well. Someone of us, where loved, a few of us love, most of us like, we all have the greed in our minds and it’s not so easy to let it go. Not because we enjoy it, but yes we are destined for it. How many times, did we feel the need to have something that we deserve, how many times have we given less than what others deserved? A question worth asking! This is isn’t a philosophical or theological blog to say, “ God does exist” instead this is just a step to design a destiny of our own, although we feel the destiny is already designed, we can still say the path isn’t, I believe the path has to be designed by the one who wants to walk on it.  If the path we chose is based on a applicable thought, Its certainly worth to tread the same.
The Blog, is all about the path, a few of our earthly counter parts chose before, continued to choose, and about those, who made it happen by designing the rest.
Enjoy reading……!!